Can you orgasm without touch? The concept of a hands-free orgasm used to confound my brain because my understanding of pleasure was based on a commonly taught formula: stimulation of an erogenous zone = orgasm. But anyone who has ever struggled with their orgasm, knows that’s not true. Orgasm is created from something else entirely — it goes beyond touch. How would you like to learn how to climax hands-free? Buckle up, you’re about to have your first breath orgasm.
Method #1 – The Breath Orgasm
The first way to climax hands-free is through what’s called a breath orgasm.
What are breath orgasms?
Breath orgasms are orgasms that are produced through intentionally breathing into an erogenous zone and consistently flowing desire, focus, and energy there, until it cumulates into an orgasm.
How to Have a Breath Orgasm
To breathe into an erogenous zone, choose a part of your body that usually feels pleasurable when stimulated, like the breasts, vagina, or clitoris. Then, as you breathe, imagine that your breath is moving in and out of this area (rather than just your nose and mouth). As you breathe, you may feel energy begin to activate and pulse in this area. Keep going, allowing the pleasure to build into an orgasmic peak.
Troubleshooting Your Breath Orgasm
While it’s pretty simple once you get the hang of it, there’s actually a few skills wrapped up in this technique that primes the pumps, so to speak:
- Your Depth of Somatic Awareness
- Your Pleasure Sensitivity
- Your Relationship with Your Sexuality
- Desire
1 – Somatic Awareness
The degree to which you’re aware of your body and the sensations within it greatly impacts your perception of pleasure. When we’re not attuned to our bodies or how we feel, we tend to think nothing is happening, no sensations or feelings are present. As you practice bringing your awareness into your body, the cornerstone of a conscious pleasure practice, the more you’ll be able to detect subtle sensations and enhance your pleasure.
To start building your somatic awareness, start with the “Easing into the Body” and “Deepening into the Body” body meditations from Greeting the Body, which you can access through PUSSY ACADEMY.
2 – Pleasure Sensitivity
As your somatic awareness grows, you’ll be able to detect areas where you’re numb, tense, and less open to receiving pleasure. Easing this tension and numbness often leads to a healing emotional release and a sensual opening, as well as an increase in pleasure.
Of course, for a breath orgasm, you can simply focus on breathing into an area you already know is sensitive to pleasure. However, if you’re interested in increasing your vaginal pleasure sensitivity or your pleasure sensitivity all throughout your body, consider joining PUSSY ACADEMY to learn conscious pleasure techniques to increase your body’s pleasure sensitivity.
3 – Relationship with Your Sexuality
Sexual shame, body dysmorphia, trauma, and low self-esteem can greatly impact our sexual pleasure. These feelings can dampen our connection to our body, decrease our availability to self-intimacy, and lower our responsiveness to sexual stimuli. They can make even a hands-on orgasm inaccessible, much more a breath orgasm. If you know these emotional blocks are affecting your sex life, be sure to explore the many avenues for healing. I offer group coaching within PUSSY ACADEMY and free monthly live community sessions to email subscribers.
4 – Desire
Personally, desire is one of the biggest factors that affect my ability to experience a hands-free orgasm. High desire means there’s more activated sexual energy and you’re more likely to be turned on mentally, emotionally, and even spiritually. The more turned on you are, the more likely it is that your activated sexual energy may tip over the edge into an orgasm.
Though I’ve listed these as two separate orgasmic experiences (energy orgasms and breath orgasms), they often come together. High desire during a breath orgasm easily lends itself to an energy orgasm…
Method #2 – The Energy Orgasm
What are energy orgasms?
Energy orgasms are orgasms produced by the pleasurable intensification of energy. These orgasms can occur in any area of the body and don’t necessarily require sexual stimuli or sexual fantasizing.
Personally, I’ve experienced energy orgasms from a build up of strong sexual and romantic desire, as well as from moments of spiritual expansion, particularly in the heart space, when I become overwhelmed with the beauty and awe of life. I’ve noticed they also occur for me when I’ve achieved a healing milestone of some kind, like creating such a state of unconditional self-love in my body that my suppressed sexual self emerges and is energetically rebirth, cumulating in a throat orgasm, as I described in Episode 46 of the Woman Gone Wild Podcast.
The beauty of energy orgasms is they surprise and delight. Unlike orgasms that we bring about from physical stimulation, we often don’t see them coming. It’s almost like our soul hits a high note we didn’t even know we could sing. You can’t quite force these, you just have to be open to the progression of energy and the unfolding of your journey.
How to Have an Energy Orgasm
The key to an energy orgasm is releasing resistance and surrendering to the progression of energy. Reaching a non-resistance state means reaching a state of alignment with your sacred heart and Deeper Self. In this state, you’re fully allowing of your experience, your body, your love, and your eternal Beingness. It’s an innately liberated state and as you allow the energy to build, it’s almost as though the passion for whatever you’re flowing energy towards passes that orgasmic threshold and tips over into climax.
Troubleshooting Your Energy Orgasm
Energy orgasms, for the most part, require…
- Sensitivity to energy
- An allowing and receptive state
- Increased pleasure capacity
1 – Sensitivity to Energy
We are all sensitive to energy. It’s simply not possible to live within a human body, designed to detect and respond to energy of all sorts, and not be sensitive to energy. We simply may not be aware of shifts in energy and knowledgeable about how to direct our personal energy to create things like healing, orgasmic pleasure, or even physical manifestations.
We explore energy in several forms within PUSSY ACADEMY:
- Emotions – energy in motion spurred on by our thoughts, focus, and beliefs
- Sexual energy – sensually activated energy
- Kundalini energy – soul-awakening energy
- Focused energy – directed energy to create a certain feeling, healing experience, outcome, or physical manifestation
Mastery of your personal energy is how PUSSY ACADEMY helps you become your most orgasmic and potent self, because this is the key to spectacular pleasure and easeful manifestations. Learning how to detect, guide, and focus energy is a key component within PUSSY ACADEMY. The more you practice, the easier it becomes.
2 – An allowing and receptive state
In order for energy to build into an orgasmic peak, just like with any kind of orgasm, we have to allow ourselves to loosen the reigns and let go. There needs to be a fairly unrestricted flow of energy. I find that this comes about with practice and building up trust in the process. For example, reflecting on the energy orgasms I’ve experienced at my healing milestones, I see that what happened in that moment was a massive release of resistance. The difference in moving from such a restricted to nonrestricted state created this orgasmic rush of liberated energy. If my energy body could squirt, I’d say it was squirting energy in those moments lol
Some of us just have access to this relaxed, “being” state naturally. Our caregivers may have supported us enough that our nervous system knows how to habitually maintain this open and receptive state, or its our natural disposition.
I’ve had to work quite diligently and consistently in order to achieve this state of consciousness, however. So, if this state comes hard for you right now, though I know it’s easy to feel bitter about it, know that there are some benefits to having to retrain your nervous system like I have. For starters, it forces you to learn how to flip the switch and turn this state ON, regardless of what’s going on in your life. And it also teaches you to recognize what flips the switch OFF. This knowing is what leads to true self mastery, not just with your orgasm, but your life. It influences just how much sweet pleasure you allow yourself to experience, from love and romance to wealth and success.
3 – Increased Pleasure Capacity
We all have an invisible pleasure set point, a cap on just how good we allow ourselves to feel. I’ve seen that energy orgasms, more than any other orgasm, really require an increased pleasure set point. We have to be willing to feel ridiculously good, seemingly for no reason at all. There’s no physical stimulation making us feel good, we’re simply choosing to feel good. Can you imagine letting that much pleasure in? Comment below, I’d love to hear your desires.
Method #3 – Yoni Egg Orgasm
The final hands-free way to climax is probably the most accessible for those who aren’t sensitive to energy and it’s the yoni egg orgasm.
Yoni eggs are oval, egg-shaped sex toys, traditionally made of jade crystal, but recently, you can also find them made from glass and other crystal varieties.
Yoni eggs are used for a variety of benefits, including sexual healing, pussy reconnection, pelvic floor health, support in healing incontinence, increasing lubrication, nurturing self-love, restoring sexual desire, and more.
What are yoni egg orgasms?
Yoni egg orgasms are orgasms that are produced from pleasurably squeezing and contracting around your yoni egg until you build into an orgasmic peak. Personally, I don’t like to require myself to be hands-free when playing with my yoni egg. There’s no need to be militant here lol this is literally all just for your fun and pleasure. You can learn how to properly prep, clean, and use a yoni egg to improve your pelvic health, increase your pleasure, rejuvenate your vagina, and emotionally heal in the Vaginal Rejuvenation program within PUSSY ACADEMY.
How to have a yoni egg orgasm
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Second, follow the instructions to properly clean, prep, and insert your yoni egg, especially if you’re working with a crystal yoni egg. You’ll also learn how to energetically cleanse and infuse your yoni egg within Module 2 of Vaginal Rejuvenation (a PUSSY ACADEMY program).
Once the egg is inside, explore different movements and ways of squeezing around the yoni egg to find which movements feel the most pleasurable to you (get follow along video and audio practices in PUSSY ACADEMY). If your vaginal pleasure sensitivity is low or you feel largely numb in your vagina, regular practice with the yoni egg will support increased pleasure, to the point that you can go hands-free and experience an hands-free orgasm. However, if you’re just starting out with this practice, feel free to stroke your clit, caress your breasts… play in whatever way feels good.
Want fully guided practices? Follow along with our live yoni egg practices and recorded practices in PUSSY ACADEMY. Start your PUSSY ACDEMY journey now >>>
And ta-da! You are officially a pussy magician. You know how to make orgasms happen, seemingly by magic.
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I hope you’ve enjoyed learning how to have hands-free orgasms, like breath orgasms and energy orgasms. If you’re ready to start your journey to becoming your most orgasmic and potent self, explore PUSSY ACADEMY today. And while I still have you here, comment below: have you ever had an hands-free orgasm before? How did it come about? Which of these are you excited to experience next?
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