Why Your Desires Feel Like a Burden | How to Feel Worthy of What You Want

I think the last thing someone wants to hear who’s had a long streak of unfulfilled or mixed bag manifestations is the eager beat of their own heart when something new sparks alight inside them. That light is quickly snuffed out in favor of the numbing balm of “practicality,” “probability,” and “usefulness.” There’s order in the denial, but there is also something deeply lost. We feel the vacancy day after day. If your desires feel like a burden, it’s likely because you’re denying and resisting them simply because, on some level, you don’t feel worthy of them. Today, in Day 12 of the Sensual Reset Challenge, you’ll be learning how to start feeling worthy of your desires.

When we resist or deny our longing, it haunts us and follows us. Eventually, having forgotten the denied desire, it becomes a nebulous wound that we attribute to things, like a lost sense of magic in the world… or feeling disconnected from our feminine energy… or a blocked chakra… If your desires feel like a burden, you need this reframe. Trust me.

Before we head into the video, I want to make sure you get dibs on an opportunity to work with my 1:1 this month. I help people pierce through the mental fog caused by trauma, abuse, or neglect and our maladaptive coping mechanisms to restore their original soul essence and joyful light. This is a journey back to you…

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If you’ve been following along with the practices in this challenge, you may already be noticing significant shifts in your mental health and overall wellbeing. And I’ve only shared the tip of the iceberg… 

I’m here to help you become your most potent, magnetic, and joyful self. That requires healing old wounds, shedding false selves, reconnecting with your body, and rediscovering your original soul essence. If you’d like to work with me this Spring, I’ve got a spot for you:

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See you tomorrow for Day 13 ✨ When life is moving fast and you’ve got an endless to-do list, it can feel scary to pause and take some time for yourself… but that’s why this 30-day challenge is so impactful. All you have to do is hit play on each day’s 5 to 10-min video and I’ll guide you through a little practice to reconnect with your body and sensual essence.

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