Struggling with your orgasm or emotional blocks to intimacy, like sexual shame, fear of intimacy, and self-sabotage? I offer trauma-informed coaching to help you become your most orgasmic and potent self.
Explore somatic-based and Tantric tools and practices to approach your inner world with radical compassion and attract soul-deep love.
Shamed out of your sexual expression. You feel partially or completely disconnected from your pussy.
Denied the fullest of care, compassion, and understanding in your most foundational of relationships. And still live and breathe the legacy of this mistreatment in your current romantic relationships, dating life, friendships, and professional life...
Programmed to be a "good girl" who doesn't "talk back" or express your own unique perspective. You've never been allowed to be real – a real person with separate emotions and a vibrant inner world worth expressing and sharing with the world.
Penalized or judged for your big feelings or intense passion. You feel this outer and inner pressure to repress big feelings and be more palatable for others' comfort.
Bullied by societal and/or familial double standards. You can never win. You're always made out to feel lacking in one area or the other.
The return of our dreaming, stirs the waters of the womb-Void. With great feeling, a new sense awakens. In this deepest phase of our self-exploration, I guide you into the ethereal realms and deeper into the mystically divine Womanly Arts, where you will learn how to know without thinking, create from a feeling, and receive council from the guides of your personal spiritual practice.
Somatic (body-based) healing offers a gateway to core wounds as they are present and alive in the body (typically in the form of tension, numbness, and varying sensations). Rather than reactivating past wounds by excavating too early or overly intellectualizing our feelings, we, well... actually feel our feelings. We feel what's energetically charged and active in the body right now.
This form of healing is an art form. With expert guidance, you'll learn when to nestle into the sensations, when to go right into the intensity, and when to ease up and titrate with pleasure.
What makes this healing approach so effective is the opportunities it offers for psychological integration – the process by which we return to wholeness and a felt sense of love, safety, and belonging in our world. From this integrated state, we accept ourselves fully and are able to meet the world with clarity, authenticity, fluidity, and love.
Subsequently, as we restore our sensitivity to our emotions and the sensations of the body, we restore sensitivity to pleasure as well. If your trauma or stress response has been to numb out or shut down, then you have not only been numbing out unfavorable feelings, but pleasurable feelings as well. The more we deepen our somatic experience, the richer and more orgasmic our internal world becomes. We also begin to dream again...
We dive deep each session to address your personal intimacy and worthiness blocks. Whether you're looking to have a better orgasm, experience profound soul-deep love, or deeply heal, you'll leave each session feeling empowered, clear, and more aligned each week.
60 minute sessions
As you integrate our healing sessions and complete your weekly practices, questions are sure to come up. Rest easy, knowing you have continuous access to coaching support throughout the week.
Monday to Friday
It's no secret, we're all looking for something a little different when it comes to intimacy. i.e. Some of us are more yin/feminine or more yang/masculine than others... or more experimental! You'll receive tailored weekly practices to match the way you play from my extensive library of Tantric practices, pleasure practices, and body meditations.
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I blend Tantric philosophy, science, and my own embodied soul wisdom to help women go from shame and frustration to orgasmic bliss. I promise you you're not broken (and neither is your pussy). And your desires aren't crazy either. No, you're not asking for too much — not even close.
You deserve a love as deep and wild as you are...
And that starts with your relationship with you.
I'm a certified Intimacy Coach through the Tantric Institute for Integrated Sexuality, where I studied Tantra, sex, and love. And I received my bachelor's degree in Religion from Princeton University where I studied premed and the intersection between science and religion.
I believe that everyone deserves to experience soul-deep love and orgasmic effervescence. There's so much more to experience...
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Before working with Yanique, I felt very disconnected from my body and my inner voice. I felt like I was stuck in Limbo, unclear about my goals and desires and forcing and struggling a lot. Feeling constant stress and anxiety paralyzed my actions.
Yanique helped me reconnect to my body, actually being able to hear my inner voice and listen to my intuition, while quieting down and accepting the voice of fear and understanding what she was telling me.
Reconnecting to my body enabled me to step into my energy, connect to my pussy, and to my power. Yanique helped me excavate my desires and the vision of the life I want to live, while helping me understand what was holding me back, identifying my fears around my goals and what they were actually meaning.
My biggest win is feeling more self-love and acceptance. I now see my worth and feel more badass on a regular basis.
Now, I actually know how to deal with blockages and overwhelming emotions so that they don’t run the show, while slowly letting go of perfectionism and control. My greatest lesson was that when I show up as myself I hold the most love, appreciation, gratitude and worth.
I don't feel the pressure of having to feel something or experience something. The space I go into when I put play on the audio practices are completely new each time, as my body's awareness is also ever-evolving. I often like that there is no music in the back, so I don't get distracted by the stimuli of music, other times I put music and create with it.
I have become more acquainted with my jade egg, and it's the first time after years that I feel safe to practice and explore. Also to communicate with my husband, and ask for what I need as well as becoming aware of his own needs.
I have made it a monthly practice, at least, caressing my breasts, breathing through my vagina, working with the Yoni Egg and listening to how I'm feeling. I have written on the prompts and also have noticed how creativity flows more easily when I have these practices.
Oftentimes I find myself being a witness of shame, when it rises, and being a container to be present and not making myself wrong for it. I have come to call my pussy Miracle Garden, and my husbands Lingam is called BAruj Kalifa (like the Burj Kalifa in Dubai haha, but Baruj is a name in hebrew that means "blessed").
I've felt loooong states of orgasms, cervical orgasming and sometimes I've also felt rigid and disconnected... I've realized it has so much to do with where my consciousness is too, as well as my cycle and period... Thank you.
At the beginning, I was feeling really nervous and intimidated. My biggest challenge was how guarded I've been throughout my life and never quite knowing how to begin to address and move through that. So my desire to relax and really open up to life and my relationships always felt so limited, which was such a frustrating thing to recognize and not quite know how to dissolve.
The private coaching has been amazing and so supportive and has helped me build confidence toward going deeper into the course and myself. I'm no longer worried about what might get stirred up and instead am meeting the experience with so much curiosity.
I loved SO MUCH about these programs and Private Coaching! Taking the time to build up arousal, creating sensitivity in my breasts, playing with breast orgasms...I feel so much more connected and present in my body now and I spend so much more time with self-pleasure because, wow, was I missing out on so much of my body that wanted to be explored. I also loved all of our coaching sessions!
My biggest breakthrough is in the amount of pleasure and joy I'm now open to receiving and experiencing. I discovered how much resistance I was putting in the way, which showed up in all areas of my life. So not only has my physical pleasure expanded, I actually started an Astrology business last month, I'm now open to a partner entering into my life, I've started taking better care of my body through a yoga practice and being more mindful with my eating. I've gone from kinda sorta putting myself first to fully seeing myself as my priority, which is just the coolest thing ever. It's been amazing!
I felt so safe, partly because Yanique has an energy that is both humble/approachable and wise. I felt I could say anything and she wouldn't judge, and I also felt empowered by her optimism. She's great at giving permission to be vulnerable by setting an example.
I would recommend getting coaching 100%, no reservations. Yanique is so passionate about her work. With Yanique as your coach, you can finally feel like you have permission to be your whole self without shame, you can finally understand that pussy is power, and that shit is transformational!
Yanique has a mix of kindness and sparkle - that approachability, a super positive energy mixed with real love. I also appreciated the knowledge and experience she brought to our session. I felt I could really trust her.
Oh I just love you, Yanique! You are such a ray of light and I love how fucking smart you are too. Your sense of humor is ridiculous, and you re the boldest badass.
At the beginning I was super nervous. I didn’t think I needed much help or healing in my sex life, but boy was I wrong! There was so much that I suppressed in my love life that was so unhealthy... but my normal. The insights I received from our sessions last with me every day.
Now, I’m able to relax during sex. To step out of my head and allow my body to experience. I’m able to go with the flow of sensations. It brings me closer to my partner and our sex life has definitely gotten better. I enjoy sex more which I never thought I could ! (I’ve always enjoyed sex). My orgasms have also intensified! It’s been a win all around!
When I went to see Yanique, I was not an open person. It was so hard for me to talk to anyone about my feelings, emotions, and sex life. She creates such a safe and warm space that I found myself really able to open up. She’s helped me heal child wounds that kept me from being able to articulate my truth!
Yanique is not only full of knowledge and wisdom, she brings this to you in such a peaceful and guided way.
Her meditations are super intense and designed for you to safely talk to the issue, trauma, or old belief system that is holding you back from being your full sex goddess! If you're on the fence about coaching, just dive into it! Whether you think you need it or not, the answer will be: you will thrive with it!
Maybe you were like me and thought your sex life was amazing and doesn’t need much change. You’ll be surprised how much more we can learn and heal.
I love the overall energy Yanique creates. We worked on some deep inner child and shadow work exercises together. That can be pretty intense and yet somehow Yanique kept the energy flowy and light but at the same time deep. It’s an amazing skill to do that and not something every coach is capable of.
I have a lot of sexual trauma I’ve worked through and on for some time so working through a lot of these early pain points was very hard for me emotionally. I was definitely not looking forward to it but my desire to begin dating again pushed me on. At the start of coaching, I knew I still did not feel safe even entertaining partnership.
Now, I’ve actually put myself out there to date again! I didn’t even think that would happen for another year but this transformation has all come about in 6 months which is amazing. I’ve fallen into love with my body again and my conversations with men feel so empowered. I don’t think I ever felt this level of confidence in dating before!
Yanique's space holding is ridiculously safe! Again, I’ve experienced a lot of trauma and going into coaching relationships can be scary because there’s uncertainty of how that will all be perceived. Not once did I feel judged or unsafe. Quite the opposite and it made me feel as though I could truly make the type of transformation I desired!
Do it! Seriously just do it. It can be scary, we can create blocks around spending the money but it’s so worth it and the side benefit to doing this work is it’s actually increased the money in my life!
But it’s all because of the deep healing and connection to my body and pleasure. If you commit to coaching and do the work you’ll see transformation in so many unexpected ways and it’s all beautiful. Yanique is just incredible <3
In the beginning, I was a little nervous, for sure! I had a whole list of issues for us to tackle, but the two biggest were wanting to fully enjoy being in my body during sex and wanting to connect more deeply with my partner. This had to do with tackling some of the left-over issues I had from sexual assault and a religious upbringing.
I really appreciated that we began from a position of exploring my desires in sex but ended up tackling a lot of the mental and physical blockages I had.
This really helped me see how sex is linked to my overall health and vice-versa, and I think it's given me a more holistic understanding of the importance of sex and intimacy in our everyday lives. The coaching space was very safe and comfortable! Yanique has a very nurturing, calming presence.
I also loved that we didn't shy away from tackling some of the deeper wounds that came up. And the assignments outside of our sessions were achievable and helped me move forward with my larger goals as well. Yanique has shown me that this work doesn't need to be overwhelming - even when it might seem a little intimidating, she will be there to guide you through these challenges!
Yanique really helped me add more fun and spontaneity to my life. She helped me to relax and find the right mindset to allow myself to initiate sex with my partner during the week. And her easy-going, very confident presence made me feel more comfortable discussing sex and intimate issues with her- which in turn made it easier for me to discuss some of those things with my partner. Yanique is an absolutely amazing coach.
I felt very supported by Yanique, like I could say anything and it wouldn't be a problem.
I loved how she flows and everything seemed so seamless and even if I felt I was rambling, it all came together in the end.
I now am connected to my inner feminine who is totally like Cleopatra and she supports me and my decisions. I am more confident and firm in who I am knowing I have a piece of myself that has my back.
If you're thinking about working with Yanique, jump off the fence, the work is worth it, YOU are worth it!
At the beginning of this journey, I was overwhelmed and nervous. I was facing challenges such as navigating boundaries and people pleasing. I now feel an increased confidence and trust in myself and my desires. During our sessions I felt safe, held, empowered, seen, heard, and a sense of ease brought through all of the above plus laughter.
I really enjoyed the authenticity Yanique brings to each session, her epic listening skills and ability to pick out key details.
I highly recommend getting coaching, it has literally been life-changing for me. The support you receive and the occasionally kick in the butt is totally worth the journey.
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