claim your spot
with yanique bell
a deep dive into sex, self, & erotic mastery
10 Sessions | 3 Months
20 Sessions | 6 Months
become an advanced lover - emotionally and sexually
Do you want to give your partner the BEST sex they've ever had? And actually know with confidence that it's the best sex because they gush about you with their friends?
hey, i'm yanique
I teach mxn* how to become masterful lovers, who are able to release into their primal sexuality, master advanced sexual techniques, but also emotionally deepen their lovemaking and initiate soul-deep love.
tantric intimacy & Empowerment coach
Coaching Certifications from the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality
Bachelor's in Religion from Princeton University, with a focus and independent research on the relationship between science and religion
*I use the term "mxn" with an "x" to indicate my dedication to cultivating safe and supportive coaching space for those who identify as a traditional man (cis, predominantly masculine/yang, and heterosexual) AND those who identify as Queer, non-binary people with penises, or simply exploring and refraining from self-identifying. All aspects of you are welcome here 🖤
most mxn don't realize just how little they know about male sexuality and their sexual potential...
The way that you have sex and self-pleasure matters. If you train your body to cum in the same way over and over again, in a high-stimulation state, then you lose sensitivity in the other parts of your penis and testicles. This can lead to sexual dysfunction over time and put a cap on what you can experience in the bedroom and how much pleasure you can give your partner.
Think about it like dieting. If you have a high sugar diet, then you can't taste the naturally occurring sugars in fruits and vegetables. You have to give your body the right nutrients and the right sexual conditioning in order to reach optimal sexual fitness.
most mxn don't know...
their cock and testicles are most likely desensitized and in some cases numb due to poor sex habits
Orgasm and ejaculation are two SEPARATE physiological events. With the right training, you can separate the two processes and learn how to orgasm without ejaculating.
This means you can last for as long as you want (up to hours) during sex and control when you ejaculate.
you can train your body to not only last longer during sex but also orgasm *without ejaculating*
Due to the abuse of power by mxn historically, many conscious mxn today are afraid of tuning into their more primal sexuality. More and more mxn find themselves second-guessing themselves and holding back during sex. But great sex that will leave your partner hungry for more is sex that feels liberated, free, wild, and instinctual. I'll teach you how to surrender deeper into higher states of consciousness AND your primal instincts.
tapping into your primal nature is not about tapping into toxic masculinity and becoming unconscious during sex
If you're a predominantly yang masculine in relationships - meaning you fall on the more traditional masculine side of the spectrum - then energy moves through your body from cock to heart. That means you tend to feel sexual desire FIRST before a deep emotional connection. Yang masculine types usually attract partners who are more Yin (but not always!) - yin partners tend to desire more deep, emotional, heart-opening sex that takes them to high states of ecstasy - both sensationally and emotionally.
Whether or not you're predominantly yin or yang, great sex has to involve the heart too.
In order to sustain your sexual attraction and build a thriving long-term relationship, you have to connect your cock to your heart (and to your soul).
but great sex isn't just about being able to last long...
I teach mxn how to go deep emotionally and lead their partners into deeply surrendered and emotionally vulnerable places.
I cultivate a safe and judgment-free space where you can explore any intimacy blocks you may have (we all have them!) and become the man/x and lover that you want to be
This is usually the part of intimacy coaching that can be intimidating for a lot of people. Slowing down long enough to feel what's going on inside us can feel overwhelming and that's why most people don't get very far trying to do this work on their own - we're quick to run away or create excuses and distractions when we're trying to heal on our own.
This often drags out the healing process and makes the wound grow in intensity. My clients are often surprised to find that the thing they were fearing for so many years... actually isn't very big or scary at all 💗
When you purchase your New Year, New Me package, you're making a commitment to yourself and you're giving yourself the support, tools, and space your need to heal and develop personal mastery.
mastering your emotions and learning how to feel on a deeper level allows you to show up more confidently and get what you really want out of your relationships, career, and life
but this is where mxn usually get stuck...
Most mxn don't get far in their goal to develop sexual mastery and become a better lover because...
they try to do it all on their own or rely solely on books/podcasts
There are amazing books out their on male sexuality - and I recommend them to my clients! However, this work is deeply personal. Often, the tools taught in books or podcasts actually need to be adjusted to suit each person. Every body is different. The way you experience energy and pleasure in your body will defer from how others do. Don't waste your precious time at home, wracking your brain, trying to make a confusing "one-size-fits-all" formula work for you when it was never designed to. Work with an experienced coach instead. I craft personal practices for my clients and adjust tools to meet their needs.
they think it will take Years and years of therapy (it doesn't)
Working with the right therapist can totally transform your life. However, you don't need to do years and years of therapy in order to become a better lover. The somatic healing tools I use will help you to quickly identify your core wound and core needs - and effectively heal and get your needs met. Coaching pairs wonderfully with therapy and can fill in the gaps of care, in-depth sexual training, and education that therapy doesn't provide. In just 4-6 months of coaching and regular home practice, you can expect to be able to last longer (10-15 minutes up to an hour - depending on your starting point) and love deeper.
they approach mastering love + sex with a fixed mindset instead of a growth mindset
The knee-jerk reaction after finding out that mxn can last longer or orgasm without ejaculation is often "but I'll never be able to do that." But this isn't about sheer talent or natural gifts. Just as anyone can get stronger from lifting weights, anyone can use these tools to extend their staying power and eventually orgasm without ejaculation. It just takes time and regular practice. And within 4-8 weeks of regular practice, you'll develop a form of "muscle memory" - making the whole process totally effortless and natural.
There's so much information out there, it's easy to feel overwhelmed. Even when we know what to do, we may not feel the motivation and drive to do it. This is commonly conceptualized as "resistance." We can often shame ourselves for feeling resistance or use it as an excuse to stay where we are. But resistance goes wayyy deeper than just "I'm not feeling up to it" or "I'm being lazy." Resistance isn't about laziness at all.
It's a sign that you're outside of your nervous system's window of tolerance and need additional support and new tools in order to unlock the next level. That's what makes this program and my coaching style so powerful and transformative. I absolutely adore all my clients and many become long-term clients and customers, but ultimately I empower my clients with the high-quality education and time-tested tools to masterfully navigate their own nervous system and keep exploring pleasure in the years to come from this strong foundation they establish during our time together...
I'm here to help you simplify the process and fast-track your results.
claim your spot
with yanique bell
a deep dive into sex, self, & erotic mastery
10 Sessions | 3 Months
20 Sessions | 6 Months
inside your
program
Your Coaching Program will be customized to your needs and how you play. Below is a general map of where we will go, but for a clearer idea of what your personal journey will look like please refer back to our consultation call.
part 1 - Deep healing + self-exploration
The first month of your program is essential. We'll focus on clearing intimacy blocks, healing past relationship wounds, and building up your sexual power with breathwork and the advanced testicle massage technique.
session 1-5
Get crystal clear on your desires and develop an effective coaching roadmap.
Session 1: Somatic Blueprinting to Get Clear
Session 2: Testicle Massage & Somatic Unwinding with Breathwork
Session 3: Inner Child Healing
Session 4: Healing Parental Wounds
Somatically unwind poor habitual sex habits and get started with the testicle massage technique for improved hormonal health and sexual virility.
Many mxn are primarily operating from their wounded inner child in their work and relationships and don't even realize it. Heal and integrate your inner child and begin the process of releasing old childhood wounds.
Explore your parental wounds and learn how to reparent yourself - creating a new, lasting foundation of unconditional self-love.
Session 5: Exploring Sexual Archetypes
Who do you want to be sexually? Step into your desired sexual archetype and set the foundation to be the lover you want to be.
part 2 - sexual training
And now, we play! In Part 2, you'll begin the Sexual Mastery training series and learn the 5 holistic sex tools to expand your staying power. We'll also explore primal play and crafting a new sexual identity.
session 6 - 10
Learn the 5 holistic sex tools and begin your sexual training.
Session 6: Beginner Sexual Training - Part I
Session 7: Beginner Sexual Training - Part 2
Session 8: Integrating the Basic Primal Instincts
Session 9: Primal Sex
Deepen your practice with additional breathwork training to create a more full-bodied orgasmic experience.
Everyone has these basic primal instincts. When ignored and unintegrated, they can show up in toxic ways. In this session, you'll integrate and embrace these two primal urges.
Learn the primal breathwork technique for wild sex.
Session 10: Intermediate Sexual Training
Further integrate your sexuality with your inner king/royal being and learn how to fuck with intention.
make this the year you become a masterful lover and totally transform your sex life.
part 3 - advanced lover
Become an Advanced Lover with targeted coaching and customized training to fit your personal pleasure goals. By the end of the program, you'll know how to fuck with your entire cock, heart, and soul...
session 11 - 15
Learn how to alchemize sexual energy and become multi-orgasmic.
Session 11: Advanced Sexual Training: Being Multi-Orgasmic
Session 12: Sexual Thriving: Leveling Up
Session 13: Cultivating Deep Peace & Presence
Session 14: Advanced Lovemaking
Take your play to the next level with an exercise to further actualize your full sexual potential.
Develop or deepen your meditation practice with a tool that will take you deeper into embodied play, ground your relationships, and create lasting peace.
Receive customized training to please your partner (based on your desires).
Session 15: Ecstatic Sexual Bliss
Learn how to invite ecstatic sexual states and initiate soul-deep sex.
included in the 6-month package
receive expert coaching to...
Improve your hormonal health & sexual virility
Increase your staying power (last over 20 minutes in bed - and up to hours)
Orgasm without ejaculation and become multi-orgasmic
Experience more full-bodied pleasure and orgasms
Heal intimacy wounds and release intimacy blocks
Cultivate unconditional self-love, self-acceptance, and confidence
become the kind of lover you've always wanted to be
what my clients are saying
"Yanique is not only full of knowledge and wisdom, she brings this to you in such a peaceful and guided way. Her meditations are super intense and designed for you to safely talk to the issue, trauma, or old belief system that is holding you back from being your full sex goddess!
I’m able to relax during sex. To step out of my head and allow my body to experience. I’m able to go with the flow of sensations. It brings me closer to my partner and our sex life has definitely gotten better.
If you're thinking about working with Yanique, just dive into it! Whether you think you need it or not, the answer will be: you will thrive!
"i enjoy sex more which i never thought I could ! (i’ve always enjoyed sex). my orgasms have also intensified!
- sara a., usa
"Reconnecting to my body enabled me to step into my energy, connect to my pussy, and to my power.
My greatest lesson was that when I show up as myself I hold the most love, appreciation, gratitude and worth.
Yanique always made me feel seen and heard and clearly managed to make sense of the mess in my head, clearly identifying where to poke and to show me how to dream big and make those desires a reality."
"i felt very disconnected from my body and my inner voice..."
- lara r., germany
"I felt so safe, partly because Yanique has an energy that is both humble/approachable and wise. I felt I could say anything and she wouldn't judge, and I also felt empowered by her optimism. She's great at giving permission to be vulnerable by setting an example.
With Yanique, you finally feel like you have permission to be your whole self without shame. You finally understand that pussy is power, and that shit is transformational!"
"i was still feeling very stuck in my own inhibition, unable to surrender sexually or let go of other's opinions of me..."
- ashley m., USA
"In the beginning, I was a little nervous, for sure! I had a whole list of issues for us to tackle, but the two biggest were wanting to fully enjoy being in my body during sex and wanting to connect more deeply with my partner. This had to do with tackling some of the left-over issues I had from sexual assault and a religious upbringing.
The coaching space was very safe and comfortable! Yanique has a very nurturing, calming presence.
Yanique really helped me see how sex is linked to my overall health and vice-versa, and it's given me a more holistic understanding of the importance of sex and intimacy in our everyday lives."
"i loved that yanique didn't shy away from tackling some of the deeper wounds that came up..."
- fiona a., Usa
2022 new year
bonuses
3 - 6 months of bliss body membership
Enjoy the Bliss Body Membership and get access to monthly guided practices, bonus podcasts, live community events and classes, seasonal premium classes and more! With additional training and community support, your Bliss Body membership goes perfectly with your Private Coaching Package.
*3-Month Package includes 3 Months of Bliss Body
6-Month Package includes 6 Months of Bliss Body
reg. price $75-150
40-min refresher sessions
The months following your program are essential. It's where you either revert to old habits or continue to deepen the work you began. In addition to access to Bliss Body, you'll also have refresher sessions to receive additional coaching and training, ask questions, and get support as you continue to grow and explore.
*3-Month Package includes 1 Refresher Session
6-Month Package includes 4 Refresher Sessions
reg. price $250-1000
everything
included
Ten (10) Coaching Sessions
Ten 60-min private sessions to become an advanced lover - sexually and emotionally.
Four (4) Months of Email Coaching
Get on-demand access to email coaching - all the support you need is always right at your fingertips.
Personalized & Custom-Made Audio Practices, Guides, and Tutorials
Receive expert-crafted, step-by-step guided audio practices and tutorials. Just hit play.
Personal Program Website
Easily access all your Call Summaries and Program downloads and documents from your personal password-protected site.
$325 in program bonuses
Three (3) Months of Bliss Body
Get access to monthly guided practices, bonus podcasts, live events, our growing online community, and more!
One (1) Bonus Refresher Sessions
Receive additional coaching and intimacy training as you continue to grow and explore beyond the program.
3-month package
10 Additional Sessions (20 Total)
Ten additional 60-min private sessions to learn advanced techniques and receive more nuanced coaching.
4 Additional Months of Email Coaching
Eight Total Months of Email Coaching for on-demand support.
6-month package
$1150 in new year bonuses
Six (6) Months of Bliss Body
Get access to monthly guided practices, bonus podcasts, live events, our growing online community, and more!
Four (4) Bonus Refresher Sessions
Receive additional coaching and intimacy training as you continue to grow and explore beyond the program.
3 Discounted Coaching Packages Remain!
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- Ashley M.
Yanique is so passionate about her work. She has that approachability, a super positive energy mixed with real love. I also appreciated the knowledge and experience she brought to our session. I felt I could really trust her.
Oh I just love you, Yanique! You are such a ray of light and I love how fucking smart you are too. Your sense of humor is ridiculous, and you're the boldest badass.
She's great at giving permission to be vulnerable by setting an example.
With Yanique, you finally feel like you have permission to be your whole self without shame.
Yanique has a mix of kindness and sparkle!
claim your spot
new year,
new me
with yanique bell
a 4 or 6-month deep dive into sex, self, & erotic mastery
10 or 15 Sessions | Save 11% and Receive 2-3 Bonus Sessions & 6-9 Months of Bliss Body
At the beginning I was super nervous. I didn’t think I needed much help or healing in my sex life, but boy was I wrong! There was so much that I suppressed in my love life that was so unhealthy... but my normal. The insights I received from our sessions last with me every day.
Now, I’m able to relax during sex. To step out of my head and allow my body to experience. I’m able to go with the flow of sensations. It brings me closer to my partner and our sex life has definitely gotten better. I enjoy sex more which I never thought I could ! (I’ve always enjoyed sex). My orgasms have also intensified! It’s been a win all around!
When I went to see Yanique, I was not an open person. It was so hard for me to talk to anyone about my feelings, emotions, and sex life. She creates such a safe and warm space that I found myself really able to open up. She’s helped me heal child wounds that kept me from being able to articulate my truth!
Her meditations are super intense and designed for you to safely talk to the issue, trauma, or old belief system that is holding you back from being your full sex goddess! If you're on the fence about coaching, just dive into it! Whether you think you need it or not, the answer will be: you will thrive with it!
Yanique is not only full of knowledge and wisdom, she brings this to you in such a peaceful and guided way.
SARA A., USA
Before working with Yanique, I felt very disconnected from my body and my inner voice. I felt like I was stuck in Limbo, unclear about my goals and desires and forcing and struggling a lot. Feeling constant stress and anxiety paralyzed my actions.
Yanique helped me reconnect to my body, actually being able to hear my inner voice and listen to my intuition, while quieting down and accepting the voice of fear and understanding what she was telling me.
Reconnecting to my body enabled me to step into my energy, connect to my pussy, and to my power. Yanique helped me excavate my desires and the vision of the life I want to live, while helping me understand what was holding me back, identifying my fears around my goals and what they were actually meaning.
My biggest win is feeling more self-love and acceptance. I now see my worth and feel more badass on a regular basis.
Now, I actually know how to deal with blockages and overwhelming emotions so that they don’t run the show, while slowly letting go of perfectionism and control. My greatest lesson was that when I show up as myself I hold the most love, appreciation, gratitude and worth.
Yanique always made me feel seen and heard and clearly managed to make sense of the mess in my head...
lara r., germany
I love the overall energy Yanique creates. We worked on some deep inner child and shadow work exercises together. That can be pretty intense and yet somehow Yanique kept the energy flowy and light but at the same time deep. It’s an amazing skill to do that and not something every coach is capable of.
I have a lot of sexual trauma I’ve worked through and on for some time so working through a lot of these early pain points was very hard for me emotionally. I was definitely not looking forward to it but my desire to begin dating again pushed me on. At the start of coaching, I knew I still did not feel safe even entertaining partnership.
Now, I’ve actually put myself out there to date again! I didn’t even think that would happen for another year but this transformation has all come about in 6 months which is amazing. I’ve fallen into love with my body again and my conversations with men feel so empowered. I don’t think I ever felt this level of confidence in dating before!
Yanique's space holding is ridiculously safe! Again, I’ve experienced a lot of trauma and going into coaching relationships can be scary because there’s uncertainty of how that will all be perceived. Not once did I feel judged or unsafe. Quite the opposite and it made me feel as though I could truly make the type of transformation I desired!
Do it! Seriously just do it. It can be scary, we can create blocks around spending the money but it’s so worth it and the side benefit to doing this work is it’s actually increased the money in my life!
Yanique is just incredible... I’ve actually put myself out there to date again!
VALERIE S., USA
In the beginning, I was a little nervous, for sure! I had a whole list of issues for us to tackle, but the two biggest were wanting to fully enjoy being in my body during sex and wanting to connect more deeply with my partner. This had to do with tackling some of the left-over issues I had from sexual assault and a religious upbringing.
I really appreciated that we began from a position of exploring my desires in sex but ended up tackling a lot of the mental and physical blockages I had.
This really helped me see how sex is linked to my overall health and vice-versa, and I think it's given me a more holistic understanding of the importance of sex and intimacy in our everyday lives. The coaching space was very safe and comfortable! Yanique has a very nurturing, calming presence.
I also loved that we didn't shy away from tackling some of the deeper wounds that came up. And the assignments outside of our sessions were achievable and helped me move forward with my larger goals as well. Yanique has shown me that this work doesn't need to be overwhelming - even when it might seem a little intimidating, she will be there to guide you through these challenges!
Yanique really helped me add more fun and spontaneity to my life. She helped me to relax and find the right mindset to allow myself to initiate sex with my partner during the week. And her easy-going, very confident presence made me feel more comfortable discussing sex and intimate issues with her- which in turn made it easier for me to discuss some of those things with my partner. Yanique is an absolutely amazing coach.
Yanique, you are PHENOMENAL!!!! If anyone has ever found their calling, it's you.
FIONA A., USA
heart-centered coaching to unlock your sacred eroticism
I take an approach to healing, spiritual expansion, and pleasure that is based in embodied wisdom, science, and ancient philosophy. The spaces I cultivate and teach in feel incredibly safe and radiate radical compassion because I truly believe every single ounce of you is beautiful, sacred, and lovable. ALL of you belongs here.
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