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Belonging to Yourself in Relationships – 028

April 20, 2020


What if all those “You’re mine” V-Day cards and goodies… are just a whole bunch of bologna? Conscious relationships are NOT about “owning” another person. In this episode of the Woman Gone Wild Podcast, I’m sharing conscious dating tips that will totally transform the way you do relationships.

Creating Relationships from Wholeness

Ok, let’s be real. Relationships can go massively wrong when we’re operating from our childhood wounds and trauma. When we’re living from this place of wounding and defense, we spin in cycles of suffering, not really knowing why we keep attracting the same kinds of lovers that, for example, always leave us for someone else or are always disappoint us in some way.

This is because unhealed trauma attracts the same situation again and again, because that’s what our nervous systems feels is safe… I know, it sounds crazy, but our nervous system, although brilliant, isn’t exactly fool-proof.

Tune into this episode to find out what it means to belong to yourself in relationships and how to detect if you’re creating relationships from a place of wholeness.

Inside the Episode

  • What it means to belong to yourself
  • A message from Brene Brown every woman needs to hear
  • Why you’re not looking for your “other half”
  • What being whole DOESN’T mean
  • 3 Questions to ask yourself to find out who you belong to
  • Why belonging to yourself is sooo important in the spiritual community right now
  • Ask the Pussy Queen – Question Answered: “How can we create a safe environment for men to be a part of the play? To be a part of the orgasmic sensations, eroticism, foreplay? And for them to be vulnerable and be seen as fragile and as potent as we are?”

Links Mentioned

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