You've known it for a while now. There's something more... You feel it when you're out in nature, dreaming of what could be. You feel it in your heart as you dare to open up just a little bit more... There's a whole life waiting to be lived. Something to be tasted... felt with your entire being. You know if you say yes, it'll be your
unbecoming. You can't go through the Pussy gateway and come out the same. False selves will die. Unaligned relationships will fall away. Your true path will become undeniable. Right from the great mother womb, you will rise...
You're not alone (not even close!). So many of us are shutting down the most vibrant and yummy parts of our essence, just to conform or please everyone else...
We're afraid we'll be judged and shunned if we were to be our true selves. We're afraid our families won't approve, our partners will freak out, our friends will talk about us behind our backs, other womxn will bash us... in our minds, there's one endless line of judgment we just don't think we could handle or ever recover from.
We don't even realize the cost we pay when we reject this part of us...
I'm Yanique Bell, Tantric Intimacy & Empowerment Coach. I received my Coaching Certifications from the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality and Bachelor's in Religion from Princeton University, with a focus and independent research on the relationship between science and religion.
I care about offering the most simplified, yet powerful and spiritually expansive intimacy tools that marry science and ancient wisdom, making soul-stretching sex and deep love more accessible to all. You deserve a love that is as deep and wild as you are.
We often don't realize just how damaging sexual shame, repression, and being disconnected from our body + feminine wisdom really is...
More and more, we're surrounded by messages that confirm that womxn can be and do anything. That our bodies are OURS to make decisions about. That we're not selfish when we take care of ourselves. That we can love our children AND put our needs, dreams, and desires first. That loving doesn't mean we give ourselves away and sign over our lives to someone else. And yet...
Even though intellectually we know and believe this, we can still struggle to actually embody it.
We still struggle to speak our truth. To say "no" and mean it. We still struggle to charge our worth and demand the pay we know we deserve. We still struggle to own our sexuality and follow our deepest desires...
We come from wild, brave, courageous, and powerful womxn who, for their time, were pushing the boundaries of what a womxn could be and how she could express herself and her sexuality. And still they could only go so far. Many of us have inherited the legacy of sexual shame, self-doubt, body shaming, self-loathing, and abuse that our mothers carried.
This wounding lives in the body *not just the mind.* That's why it's not enough to simply intellectually or even spiritually reclaim the feminine. It's not enough to have feminist ideals.
We have to heal at the source.
Your pussy is more than just flesh. The journey to becoming more orgasmic and sensually alive is also a journey back to fullness. You'll experience the fullness of your pussy and the fullness of YOU.
Pussy also offers a unique gateway into rich spiritual experiences like the Cosmic Womb and Void - the origins of the Universe... Are you ready to meet the Goddess within?
i work with womxn who want healthy, deep love and are ready to do the necessary inner + outer work.
This is a radically compassionate and sex-positive space. I'll be with you every step of the way, but to get the most out of coaching you must be willing to practice and commit to the exercises outside of our sessions.
I work with only a select amount of private clients each year so that I can offer a high-touch and personalized experience. Coaching is a collaboration and you are a key player in your growth.
No matter which package you choose, you'll secure your spot and have full access to the Private Coaching Program perks!
The results I get womxn:
Shame is an emotional imprint that we inherit from our upbringing, society, and community. It can be one of the hardest things to overcome. With my pussy-first approach, you'll learn how to befriend your shame and create a relationship with your body and yourself that overflows with unconditional love, acceptance, and belonging. ALL of you belongs here.
Explore the erotic arts and heal your vagina with tailored practices, deep healing sessions, and holistic sex training. In my private coaching program, you'll rewire your body for pleasure, increase your pleasure capacity, and reach new orgasmic heights. My refreshing approach to orgasmic expansion is based on my personal motto "for the love of Pussy" - that means approaching your pussy with true love, not pressing her to perform, but experiencing orgasm through a deep connection and union with your body.
profound intimacy & soul-deep love
There is an energetic link between your pussy and heart. Soul-stretching sex starts with soul-deep love. Heal your heart and become a better lover of yourself and others.
personal empowerment & thriving
It's time to embrace your potency. Pussy invites us to dream bigger, love deeper, and do so in connection with our soul and in support of the abundance and thriving of all beings. If you're languishing or feeling stuck, realign and revitalize your life, career, and finances with pussy-powered coaching to restore ease and joy, one cycle at a time.
The journey begins with crystal clear clarity and a comprehensive roadmap to getting your delicious desires met. We'll get to the core of your desires so there's no confusion and you feel a deep, soul activation around your goal. I'll run somatic diagnostics to illuminate your internal roadblocks and identify external support systems that will facilitate your transformation and the manifestation of your desires. You'll leave this session feeling lit up from pussy to crown and with complete clarity about what you want and how to get it.
Next, the work begins! You'll have the opportunity to heal and transform in a profoundly safe and nurturing coaching container fit for a queen/x. You'll explore your inner blocks and complete intensely liberating shadow work that will bring you into divine alignment with your soul's original essence. In this coaching space, you'll not only heal the internal blocks to your desire, but also learn how to regulate and re-wire your nervous system to achieve anything you want, from unlimited self-love to financial success.
Then, we play! You'll use my unique Pussy-centered approach to expand your pleasure, own your crown, and rewild your life. You'll learn how to infuse your life with Pussy and watch as a revival takes place in and outside the bedroom. Pussy invites us to dream bigger, lead from the heart, and live unapologetically in the pursuit of our bliss and fulfillment. Using breathwork, meditation, and sacred sexual practices, you'll rewild and manifest from the inside out - expanding your orgasmic & personal potency.
I work with only a few private clients at a time and spots are filling up! Your private coaching package will include everything you need to thrive.
Before working with Yanique, I felt very disconnected from my body and my inner voice. I felt like I was stuck in Limbo, unclear about my goals and desires and forcing and struggling a lot. Feeling constant stress and anxiety paralyzed my actions.
Yanique helped me reconnect to my body, actually being able to hear my inner voice and listen to my intuition, while quieting down and accepting the voice of fear and understanding what she was telling me.
Reconnecting to my body enabled me to step into my energy, connect to my pussy, and to my power. Yanique helped me excavate my desires and the vision of the life I want to live, while helping me understand what was holding me back, identifying my fears around my goals and what they were actually meaning.
My biggest win is feeling more self-love and acceptance. I now see my worth and feel more badass on a regular basis.
Now, I actually know how to deal with blockages and overwhelming emotions so that they don’t run the show, while slowly letting go of perfectionism and control. My greatest lesson was that when I show up as myself I hold the most love, appreciation, gratitude and worth.
At the beginning I was super nervous. I didn’t think I needed much help or healing in my sex life, but boy was I wrong! There was so much that I suppressed in my love life that was so unhealthy... but my normal. The insights I received from our sessions last with me every day.
Now, I’m able to relax during sex. To step out of my head and allow my body to experience. I’m able to go with the flow of sensations. It brings me closer to my partner and our sex life has definitely gotten better. I enjoy sex more which I never thought I could ! (I’ve always enjoyed sex). My orgasms have also intensified! It’s been a win all around!
When I went to see Yanique, I was not an open person. It was so hard for me to talk to anyone about my feelings, emotions, and sex life. She creates such a safe and warm space that I found myself really able to open up. She’s helped me heal child wounds that kept me from being able to articulate my truth!
Her meditations are super intense and designed for you to safely talk to the issue, trauma, or old belief system that is holding you back from being your full sex goddess! If you're on the fence about coaching, just dive into it! Whether you think you need it or not, the answer will be: you will thrive with it!
I love the overall energy Yanique creates. We worked on some deep inner child and shadow work exercises together. That can be pretty intense and yet somehow Yanique kept the energy flowy and light but at the same time deep. It’s an amazing skill to do that and not something every coach is capable of.
I have a lot of sexual trauma I’ve worked through and on for some time so working through a lot of these early pain points was very hard for me emotionally. I was definitely not looking forward to it but my desire to begin dating again pushed me on. At the start of coaching, I knew I still did not feel safe even entertaining partnership.
Now, I’ve actually put myself out there to date again! I didn’t even think that would happen for another year but this transformation has all come about in 6 months which is amazing. I’ve fallen into love with my body again and my conversations with men feel so empowered. I don’t think I ever felt this level of confidence in dating before!
Yanique's space holding is ridiculously safe! Again, I’ve experienced a lot of trauma and going into coaching relationships can be scary because there’s uncertainty of how that will all be perceived. Not once did I feel judged or unsafe. Quite the opposite and it made me feel as though I could truly make the type of transformation I desired!
Do it! Seriously just do it. It can be scary, we can create blocks around spending the money but it’s so worth it and the side benefit to doing this work is it’s actually increased the money in my life!
In the beginning, I was a little nervous, for sure! I had a whole list of issues for us to tackle, but the two biggest were wanting to fully enjoy being in my body during sex and wanting to connect more deeply with my partner. This had to do with tackling some of the left-over issues I had from sexual assault and a religious upbringing.
I really appreciated that we began from a position of exploring my desires in sex but ended up tackling a lot of the mental and physical blockages I had.
This really helped me see how sex is linked to my overall health and vice-versa, and I think it's given me a more holistic understanding of the importance of sex and intimacy in our everyday lives. The coaching space was very safe and comfortable! Yanique has a very nurturing, calming presence.
I also loved that we didn't shy away from tackling some of the deeper wounds that came up. And the assignments outside of our sessions were achievable and helped me move forward with my larger goals as well. Yanique has shown me that this work doesn't need to be overwhelming - even when it might seem a little intimidating, she will be there to guide you through these challenges!
Yanique really helped me add more fun and spontaneity to my life. She helped me to relax and find the right mindset to allow myself to initiate sex with my partner during the week. And her easy-going, very confident presence made me feel more comfortable discussing sex and intimate issues with her- which in turn made it easier for me to discuss some of those things with my partner. Yanique is an absolutely amazing coach.