You've known it for a while now. You have so much more to give and receive when it comes to your relationships and even your career... You're trying your best, but sometimes you can't help but feel like you're missing some key guidance that only a select group of mxn have been privy to. How the heck do you get this thing right?
You don't need to become robotic in love, parroting words that are not your own or trying to be someone you're not - instead, discover what your authentic sexual magnetism is, learn how to communicate your love so your partner(s) actually feels loved, and master sexual skills that will make your them go wild with pleasure.
I'm Yanique Bell, Tantric Intimacy & Empowerment Coach. I received my Coaching Certifications from the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality and Bachelor's in Religion from Princeton University, with a focus and independent research on the relationship between science and religion.
I care about offering the most simplified, yet powerful and spiritually expansive intimacy tools that marry science and ancient wisdom, making soul-stretching sex and deep love more accessible to all. You deserve a love that is as deep and wild as you are.
Despite the fact that male desire and sexuality seems to be everywhere in society, most mxn don't realize just how little they actually know about male sexuality and their sexual potential...
If you're a predominantly yang masculine in relationships - meaning you fall on the more traditional masculine side of the spectrum - then energy moves through your body from cock to heart. That means you tend to feel sexual desire before a deep emotional connection. Yang masculine types usually attract partners who are more Yin (but not always!) - yin partners tend to desire more deep, emotional, heart-opening sex that takes them to high states of ecstasy - both sensationally and emotionally.
Whether or not you're predominantly yin or yang, great sex has to involve the heart too.
In order to sustain your sexual attraction and build a thriving long-term relationship, you have to connect your cock to your heart (and to your soul).
This is usually the part of intimacy coaching that can be intimidating for a lot of people. Slowing down long enough to feel what's going on inside us can seem overwhelming and that's why most people don't get very far trying to do this work on their own - we're quick to run away or create excuses and distractions when we're trying to heal on our own.
This often drags out the healing process and makes the wound grow in intensity. My clients are often surprised to find that the thing they were fearing for so many years... actually isn't very big or scary at all.
When you purchase your private coaching package, you're making a renewed commitment to yourself and all the relationships in your life. You're giving yourself the support, tools, and space you need to truly heal, expand, and develop personal mastery.
Male sexuality can be just as deep and expansive as women's. Your cock and testicles offer a unique gateway into rich spiritual experiences and profound revelations.
Are you ready to experience the God within?
i work with mxn who want healthy, deep love and are ready to do the necessary inner + outer work.
This is a radically compassionate and sex-positive space. I'll be with you every step of the way, but to get the most out of coaching you must be willing to practice and commit to the exercises outside of our sessions.
I work with only a select amount of private clients each year so that I can offer a high-touch and personalized experience. Coaching is a collaboration and you are a key player in your growth.
No matter which package you choose, you'll secure your spot and have full access to the Private Coaching Program perks!
The results I get mxn:
Shame is an emotional imprint that we inherit from our upbringing, society, and community. It can be one of the hardest things to overcome. Whether you're carrying shame around porn, your kinks and desires, your body, or sexuality, you'll learn how to befriend your shame and create a relationship with your body and yourself that overflows with unconditional love, acceptance, and belonging. ALL of you belongs here.
Expand your orgasmic potential and master the erotic arts with holistic sex tools to help you last longer, orgasm without ejaculation, become multi-orgasmic, and experience ecstatic spiritual states during sex. In my private coaching program, you'll rewire your entire body for pleasure and become a masterful lover, able to last as long as you want and orgasm without feeling drained and depleted, but alive and energized... your cock truly has so much more to offer.
intimacy healing & soul-deep love
There is an energetic link between your cock and heart. Soul-stretching sex requires soul-deep love. Heal your heart and become a better lover of yourself and others.
personal empowerment & thriving
Authentic power is the new edge. Learn somatic tools and energizing self-pleasure practices that help you remove unconscious blocks and unlock your true potency. The divine masculine invites us to dream bigger, love deeper, and lead with integrity for the abundance and thriving of all beings. If you're languishing or feeling stuck, realign and revitalize your life, career, and finances with revitalizing coaching to restore ease and joy.
The journey begins with crystal clear clarity and a comprehensive roadmap to achieving your goals. We'll start by getting to the core of your desires so there's no confusion. Expect to feel a deep, soul activation around your goal. I'll run somatic diagnostics to illuminate your internal roadblocks and identify external support systems that will facilitate your transformation and the manifestation of your desires. You'll leave this session feeling lit up from cock to crown, with complete clarity on what you want and how to get it.
Next, the work begins! You'll have the opportunity to heal and transform in a profoundly safe and nurturing coaching container fit for a king/x. You'll explore your inner blocks and complete intensely liberating shadow work that will bring you into divine alignment with your soul's original essence. In this coaching space, you'll not only heal the internal blocks to your desire, but also learn how to regulate and re-wire your nervous system to achieve anything you want, from unlimited self-love to financial success.
Then, we play! You'll use the holistic sex tools to expand your pleasure capacity, embrace your primal nature, and rewild your sex life. You'll learn how to use your sexual energy to power your life, desires, and relationships. This final phase, you're invited to dream bigger, lead from the heart, and love boldly, allowing yourself to experience the bliss and fulfillment you desire. Using breathwork, meditation, and sacred sexual practices, you'll expand your orgasmic & personal potency.
I work with only a few private clients at a time and spots are filling up! Your custom package will include everything you need to thrive.
At the beginning I was super nervous. I didn’t think I needed much help or healing in my sex life, but boy was I wrong! There was so much that I suppressed in my love life that was so unhealthy... but my normal. The insights I received from our sessions last with me every day.
Now, I’m able to relax during sex. To step out of my head and allow my body to experience. I’m able to go with the flow of sensations. It brings me closer to my partner and our sex life has definitely gotten better. I enjoy sex more which I never thought I could ! (I’ve always enjoyed sex). My orgasms have also intensified! It’s been a win all around!
When I went to see Yanique, I was not an open person. It was so hard for me to talk to anyone about my feelings, emotions, and sex life. She creates such a safe and warm space that I found myself really able to open up. She’s helped me heal child wounds that kept me from being able to articulate my truth!
Her meditations are super intense and designed for you to safely talk to the issue, trauma, or old belief system that is holding you back from being your full sex goddess! If you're on the fence about coaching, just dive into it! Whether you think you need it or not, the answer will be: you will thrive with it!
In the beginning, I was a little nervous, for sure! I had a whole list of issues for us to tackle, but the two biggest were wanting to fully enjoy being in my body during sex and wanting to connect more deeply with my partner. This had to do with tackling some of the left-over issues I had from sexual assault and a religious upbringing.
I really appreciated that we began from a position of exploring my desires in sex but ended up tackling a lot of the mental and physical blockages I had.
This really helped me see how sex is linked to my overall health and vice-versa, and I think it's given me a more holistic understanding of the importance of sex and intimacy in our everyday lives. The coaching space was very safe and comfortable! Yanique has a very nurturing, calming presence.
I also loved that we didn't shy away from tackling some of the deeper wounds that came up. And the assignments outside of our sessions were achievable and helped me move forward with my larger goals as well. Yanique has shown me that this work doesn't need to be overwhelming - even when it might seem a little intimidating, she will be there to guide you through these challenges!
Yanique really helped me add more fun and spontaneity to my life. She helped me to relax and find the right mindset to allow myself to initiate sex with my partner during the week. And her easy-going, very confident presence made me feel more comfortable discussing sex and intimate issues with her- which in turn made it easier for me to discuss some of those things with my partner. Yanique is an absolutely amazing coach.
I love the overall energy Yanique creates. We worked on some deep inner child and shadow work exercises together. That can be pretty intense and yet somehow Yanique kept the energy flowy and light but at the same time deep. It’s an amazing skill to do that and not something every coach is capable of.
I have a lot of sexual trauma I’ve worked through and on for some time so working through a lot of these early pain points was very hard for me emotionally. I was definitely not looking forward to it but my desire to begin dating again pushed me on. At the start of coaching, I knew I still did not feel safe even entertaining partnership.
Now, I’ve actually put myself out there to date again! I didn’t even think that would happen for another year but this transformation has all come about in 6 months which is amazing. I’ve fallen into love with my body again and my conversations with men feel so empowered. I don’t think I ever felt this level of confidence in dating before!
Yanique's space holding is ridiculously safe! Again, I’ve experienced a lot of trauma and going into coaching relationships can be scary because there’s uncertainty of how that will all be perceived. Not once did I feel judged or unsafe. Quite the opposite and it made me feel as though I could truly make the type of transformation I desired!
Do it! Seriously just do it. It can be scary, we can create blocks around spending the money but it’s so worth it and the side benefit to doing this work is it’s actually increased the money in my life!
Before working with Yanique, I felt very disconnected from my body and my inner voice. I felt like I was stuck in Limbo, unclear about my goals and desires and forcing and struggling a lot. Feeling constant stress and anxiety paralyzed my actions.
Yanique helped me reconnect to my body, actually being able to hear my inner voice and listen to my intuition, while quieting down and accepting the voice of fear and understanding what she was telling me.
Reconnecting to my body enabled me to step into my energy, connect to my pussy, and to my power. Yanique helped me excavate my desires and the vision of the life I want to live, while helping me understand what was holding me back, identifying my fears around my goals and what they were actually meaning.
My biggest win is feeling more self-love and acceptance. I now see my worth and feel more badass on a regular basis.
Now, I actually know how to deal with blockages and overwhelming emotions so that they don’t run the show, while slowly letting go of perfectionism and control. My greatest lesson was that when I show up as myself I hold the most love, appreciation, gratitude and worth.